Married Men and MY Sisters who love them.

[J007]

I was counseling a AA female Age 24 who informed me she was involved with a married man and have already bought her wedding dress and set a date. Keep in mind the guy is separated, getting ready to deploy and is MARRIED. The girl gave me a headache on the spot. She is so in love with dude, I don't know what direction to go with old girl.

[Jay_Thomas]

SHOW HER THE DOOR!

She sounds like the LIFE CAN TEACH ME BETTER type.   

Oh wait, I forgot, you're a professional...hmmmm.


Okay...back to my original thought, SHOW HER THE DOOR 

[Jay_Thomas]

AFTER she goes psycho because he

1) stayed with his wife and told her to kick rocks

2) doesn't care that she is knocked up [yeah, you know thats next]

SHE WILL BE CUTTIN THAT WEDDING DRESS UP IN TO LITTLE PIECES

AND SPRINKLING IT ALL OVER HIS WIFE'S CAR....WITH GLUE.

Or something crazy.   

[J007]

She has self-esteem issues and drinks(heavy liquor) to self-medicate. I told her to see me tomorrow with a list of positive and negative about what she likes about herself. She said " I know it is wrong, but f**k up. Straight from D.C

[Wildcat1025]

Plenty of women do this. It's much more common than some people think.

[Sierra]

First it maybe a lie that the guy is separated from his wife. So send his wife an anonymous note of this affair>>>it will then be over>>>Fight in the bridal shop again 

[GALFAMU]

Plenty of women do this. It's much more common than some people think.

Yes they do. And it is so sad.

This particular young lady is 24--and she is stuck on marrying someone who isn't even in a position to marry.

Oooh! When I was 24---it wasn't even about marriage or even a relationship.

It was about me, me, and me and my friends!

[Jay_Thomas]

I'm always amazed  curious puzzled annoyed with the folks who break their damn necks to get married,   worry the hell outta you to attend a tiredazz wedding, and the next thing you know they are breaking their necks to get divorced   .... I ain't speaking in general, I'm speaking of folks I know.  

Hell, the ones I know may have needed to be on your couch, J007.  


I'm just saying, carry on....   

[J007]

Same here GAL FAM.  The sad part is she has 3y/o twins by her ex and he cheated on her with his current wife. He wants to keep the kids while she is deployed, but haven't done anything for them. ( this is what she says).

[GALFAMU]

WOW! Kids are invloled?!

Hopefully she can and will understand that right now her life should be about her children and taking care of herself.

She cannot do anything worthwhile until she get that mindset.

[y04185]

Plenty of women do this. It's much more common than some people think.

Yes they do. And it is so sad.

This particular young lady is 24--and she is stuck on marrying someone who isn't even in a position to marry.

Oooh! When I was 24---it wasn't even about marriage or even a relationship.

It was about me, me, and me and my friends!

When you were 24 you and your friends went out in one of these . . .

[LULions]

She has self-esteem issues and drinks(heavy liquor) to self-medicate. I told her to see me tomorrow with a list of positive and negative about what she likes about herself. She said " I know it is wrong, but f**c up. Straight from D.C

 

[‘87 Alum]

J -

when she comes in for her next session, you should have The Spinners' classic hit, "It takes a fool", subliminally playing in the background.

[Capler]

I don't know what direction to go with old girl.

You listen, smile and then move on to your next appointment.

[J007]

Not that simple, Mr. Cap. I take interest in our sisters. Especially is this Man Army.

She came in early for appt. Very intelligent girl, who was going to Old Dominion before coming into the Army. Very impressive with her list, in which we discussed at length. She came in yesterday with this big a-- clamp in her head. I told her to pull her hair back and start looking the part in and out of uniform. She came in today with her hair pull back, looking much better. We will see how this play out.